The end of my Run.


I had once said that running for me, is the most honest test of my body’s endurance, strength and most of all, my willpower. It’s just you, the demanding road under the soles of your beat-out trainers and your mind. You can never be more alone than in that moment when you call on your aching body to perform what your mind wills it to do. There was always something about a run that brought a little tightness to my chest and took my legs a couple seconds to  find a comfortable stride without butterflies fluttering in my inner thighs.

My brother stuck with me to give me moral support for my first 5k

I'm not a gifted runner, or a natural, nor had it been something I had been doing forever... As a matter of fact, I came into running quite late. But when I did discover it, there was no turning back. It was a new phase of my life and it was all mine. It was my grit, my steel, my throw my arms up in the air and push a little harder when one of my favorite songs blared through my headphones, my "I passed two more people today that I couldn't pass last month... YeeHaw!" I made new friends when I wanted to up the ante and joined a running group. I encountered hills that kicked my butt, and made me feel for the first time in my life, completely out of my depth and made me question my resolve.

My Bro & I after my first 5k

Some of my favorite moments whilst running were:

*sunrises around the Queen's Park Savannah;
*the smell of crushed seeds on the second turn of the Lady Chancellor Hill;
*seeing Paramin in the early hours of the morning;
*looking at the face of a hill on Hololo mountain and asking myself for the first time ever "what have      I gotten myself into?" and then pushing on;
*shaving off a few seconds and eventually minutes;
*feeling stronger and more alive with every improved run;
*my husband first started courting me by coming along when I first started running. He's as fit as a fiddle, so my "runs" were a walk in the park for him. He would chatter on whilst I huffed and puffed and compelled my lungs and body into submission. A favorite memory was running up Lady Chancellor Hill, with Edward and his cousin Jennifer (my friend). Edward chattered all the way up the hill and at some point turned to me to find that my lips turned blue because I was trying a new breathing technique! He messaged me later that evening to say "Blue doesn't quite become you! See you on our next run."

Me, Edward and Nina after my first encounter with Hololo Mountain for King of the Hill

But most of all, I will miss the sound, smell and feel of my body as I settle into my breathing and find a stride. This is the end of my run.


Cali.. when words are insufficient



I am racing off the plane when we arrive in Cali, and Edward is chuckling at me. We have a fairly clear run until the baggage claim.The baggage claim is right in front of the wall of glass and glass doors leading to the people waiting for the arrivals – so close but yet so far away!!! It’s torturous! I squint my eyes while searching the crowd for my “Nail” while absent mindedly turning toward the luggage carousel. Four waving arms pop up and my heart soars! I exclaim,“They’re here Babe!” as I wave frantically back. After finally lugging our bags off the carousel, I am re-united with my Nail. As I hug her, I can’t believe we managed to stay apart for five long years.
Luzma & I

Maybe an explanation for my “Nail” analogy is necessary. Whilst studying in London, I moved around quite a bit. In my final year, I was sharing an apartment with friends in Ealing. It is here, that I met my new family. As I mentioned before, Luzma and Samir, are incredible human beings. I found in them motivation, inspiration and freedom. We created a life in London, a world within a world, that I have missed every single day since I left. Luzma and I had become very close, running off and having adventures and doing every little thing together. One evening, after a particuarly harrowing adventure, Samir arrived home to find us both curled up under a blanket on the couch, nursing our teas and particularly wide-eyed. As he walked in the door, he faced a frontal verbal explosion of us re-counting the day’s events to him. He relived every moment with us, then shook his head smiling to himself and said, “You two are like Nail and Dirt, nothing comes between you!”

We are tightly packed in their Renault Twingo with my, as always, ridiculously overpacked suticase, but I am as happy as I can be. I want to soak up their every feature, their every move, their separately distinct accents and I am just happy to be back in our own little world!

When we arrive at their home, I close my eyes and smile inside. It is everything I could imagine it would be of them both – practical, modest, warm, artsy, detailed, light and very much Luzma and Samir. We chatter and chatter devouring up every detail from each other and I have to keep reminding myself that Samir has to teach a class in the morning. We hug and kiss goodnight, and I am as excited as a kid for tomorrow morning when we can chatter and chatter again.

Andina Bailar in La Loma de la Cruz.

La Loma de la Cruz is an active street that ascends one of the many hilltops in Cali. The street is lined with artisans, musicians and a neatly tucked away art gallery owned and run by the lovely Mireya. As we walk into Mireya’s very intimate gallery, Edward and I are greeted with big warm hugs and lots of very quick Spanish that goes completely over my head. In any event, even if I could understand what they were saying, I would not have heard them. I was too taken with the art hanging on the walls and on the floor propped up against the walls to really try to wrap my head around the fast flying Spanish.

I shake off my initial awe and in my broken, improper verb and tense usage, enquire about two pieces which have snagged my curiosity. Luzma has to act as interpreter for Mireya’s explanations about the artist Guayasamin. As Mireya speaks her gentle Spanish and Luzma translates to me, I see the struggle which he depicts playing itself out in the art and at the end of her very lucid and vivid explanation, I know we have found our piece.

After some delicious empanadas and local Colombian beer, we finally end up at the Andina Bailar. When Luzma said to me, “We go to dance here at least once a week”, I had a vision of a little courtyard with a music set-up and individual couples dancing to the traditional local music. What it actually was…. was incredible!

We walked up the street from Mireya’s gallery and we could hear the very upbeat traditional music before we came to a dead end. At the very end of the street, there was a large recessed circular plaza under the blessing of a lovely carved stone cross. As I stood on the upper verge of the plaza, I was met with a crowd of at least 100 people of every age, color and description, in a joyous flash mob dance of extraordinary intricacy! Everyone in that circle was awash with smiles and laughter. I felt their happy energy and you couldn’t help but bob to the tempo of the infectious music.

I was quickly tugged into the dancing whirlwind by Julianna, Luzma’s beautiful niece who does this type of dance professionally. Intimated does not even begin to cover it! However, I surrender myself to the energy and joy of the crowd and pretty soon I am Andina Bailar-ing! In a moment of laughter and movement, I threw my head back and lifted my eyes to the sky, and there it is…. the beautiful open night sky, the stars, the concrete cross under the street lights of the circular plaza and all these happy dancing people. There is no word to aptly describe that moment other than, euphoric.


Andina Bailar in La Loma de la Cruz
Driving to the Unicentro.

Edward and I wanted to get some souvenirs for our family, and Luzma and Samir directed us to the Unicentro, which is a very nice shopping mall in Cali. As they were both working, Luzma lent us her car, gave us the address and off we went! If you thought Trinidadian drivers were bad…. Think again! Our trip to the mall was rife with being accosted by a man in a gorilla suit at the traffic lights, almost being driven over, across and into by several mopeds, motorbikes, motorized “tri-pods” and more of a roller coaster ride than a drive! Never the less, my Captain got us there and back, safe and sound.

Luzma, I am sorry about the nail marks on your passenger seat!

 El Cerro de la Tres Cruzs.

Throughout our stay in the city of Cali there were three visible constants:

1         The beautiful and powerful mountain range;
       The massive open armed Jesus looking down on the 2 million plus inhabitants of Cali; and
3        The three Crosses at the top one of the hills that lit up the night sky.

We were unable to visit Jesus, as he resided on top of a hill that was inhabited, by what my friends termed “dangerous people”. Given Cali’s notorious history I asked no further questions and figured they needed him more than we did anyway. We did however, venture to the three crosses at “El Cerro de la Tres Cruzs” (the Hill of the Three Crosses). When dressing for the occasion, Samir tells me, “it’s an hour long walk, so wear sunblock and bring a hat.” I stress here the words “hour” and “walk”. Maybe that would be an accurate description if we were all mountain goats!

Our view of the City from the mid-way point
Despite climbing cliff face and stopping every few hundred times to stuff my lungs back down my throat, it was truly an incredible experience. As we got further and further up the “hill”, the air got cooler. The view of Cali’s city from the mid way point was truly spectacular. The make-up of the city was such that from the foothills of the mountains, the city spread out like pooling water and then stopped in a very clear line. Looking up at the mountains however, the houses ascended like little ants and did not stop at any one particular point. You heard what seemed like every sound from the city, but yet you felt remote and removed, truly an observer.

Surprisingly the view at the top is less spectacular than from the mid way point, as there are a lot of trees and power lines that block the view. However, whilst at the top, we learn the fable of the hill. The old city of Cali was much smaller than its present two million population, and was situated initially at the very foothills of the mountain. The fable goes that demon spirits from the neighboring valley would descend on the Calais and torment them. The three crosses were erected at the top of the hill to prevent the demons from crossing into their valley and to protect the city.

The top of the “cerro” is complete with concrete pews and a tent for the faithful. For the mountain goats, there are some sturdy concrete dumbbells and barbells complete with a workout bench!

La Iglesia de la Merced

We venture to downtown to a Church that Samir is convinced that we would really appreciate. It is a very beautiful Church and to my surprise it has a very similar history to a lot of the temples in Trinidad. This La Iglesia de la Merced (the Church of Mercy) is made of mud! Much like the temples of old in Trinidad which were made of mud, the walls were smoothed over with cow manure and then painted.

The church is well preserved and well used. As we make our way into the hallowed hall, I am not captured by the impressive intricate and golden gilded alter, nor the incredibly high roof. I am in fact immediately drawn to an alcove in a side wall where a bound and beaten Jesus quietly resides. The craftsmanship on the figure is impeccable. I have trouble figuring out my aperture and shutter speed settings in the dim lighting and spend several minutes positioning myself and reviewing my pictures in the LCD screen.  I almost drop the camera in shock (I hope my husband is not reading this part) when I quickly scan my screen and found the image staring back at me to be too lifelike. Frustrated that I feel my photography skills cannot do this justice to this creation, I sit close by and try to embed the image into my memory. It is then that I notice His toes.

He has been carved out of wood, and the only reason I can tell is that the faithful touch his feet. His feet have been touched so many times that the finishing and paint on His toes have been worn away. However, even the exposed raw wood which is revealed is smooth, signaling that even the raw wood has been sanded down by the frequency with which His feet are touched.  

The Big Adventure: San Cipriano

Six am is never a good idea in my mind. So when we pack our sleepy heads into the car for the four hour drive, I quickly assume a sleep position and ready myself to at least catch a cat-nap. Our gracious hosts begrudge us nothing and bribe us with the promise of a lovely breakfast along the way.

I couldn’t sleep even if I wanted to. The ever increasing view of the extensive mountain range as we moved away from the city enthralls me. I have never seen vegetation so thick and massive and I shoot question after question at Luzma and Samir. As we get higher up the mountain, the cold air nips at my bare legs and through my chiffon throw-over. As we stop for breakfast, I am a real sight! Bed-hair, ‘don’t talk to me’ shades, shorts, sneakers and wrapped in a massive wooly shawl covering the top half of my body. Ever freezing, even in my office in Trini, Edward shakes his head at the sight of me and jokingly tugs at my shawl which earns him a snarl of “Don’t you dare!” Expecting the snarl he laughs and throws his arms around me and shuffles me indoors.

The breakfast stop was as enchanting as my friends had promised. The wooden log cabin in the mountains, on the edge of a gently sloping hill was a delight, with its bird feeders bringing in humming birds and other tiny winged- creatures, and the tame macaw and parrots in the well groomed sloping compound. After a very hearty breakfast of arepas, eggs, local cheese, hot chocolates, teas and coffees, we set off, this time with a much more pleasant and sociable Shalini!

The might of the mountains keep me entertained for the rest of our drive whilst Luzma and Samir sing along to the collection of favorite songs. Throughout our journey there were patches of extensive road works and retention work on the mountain slopes. The machinery, which I know to be some of the biggest in existence, paled in comparison to the mountain slopes.

Some time much later, we arrive at the turnoff to the San Cipriano village. As we turn into the street leading to the village, the compact Twingo is suddenly mobbed by at least 10 very large men, all trying to hustle us for a tour. I am immediately shaken out of my lazy, relaxed mood and become wary that they could easily topple our little car. As I am panicingly saying to Samir, “What is this?” the concern suddenly vanishes from his face, he smiles, points and says “there she is!” I kid you not when I say, it was a scene out of a movie!

Blazing up the hill on a dirt bike, was a strongly built woman with dark chocolate brown skin and finely braided shoulder length hair. She drove her dirt bike straight toward the men mobbing us at the car, and then at the last minute, spun her back tire toward them and turned the bike around. The men scatter. She signals to Samir to follow her, and she takes us into the village. My husband disbelieving the scene that has just unfolded, is in hysterics of laughter and bellowing, “I like her!” The excitement takes it root and we are all laughing as we tumble out of the car.

Our friends had given us a very brief description of what today’s adventure entailed, but left it very sketchy as they wanted us to have no expectations of what was about the transpire. Even if they had told me in every bit of detail, I still would not have expected what I saw next.

There is a train track that runs through the village of San Cipriano. The locals have made quite a tourist attraction by building a sort of jerry-rigged taxi from the main village to the bathing pools of the San Cipriano River. Motor bikes have been strapped onto wooden crates with benches. This contraption is then lined up on the train tracks. The motor bike’s back wheel acts as the propulsion, and the wooden crate has metal concave wheels which fit onto the other side of the track. This contraptions were called "Brujitas" which translates to 'Little Witch"!




No seat belts, no harnesses and an awful “CRA-TAC CRA-TAC!!” every time we pass over one of the joins    in the train track! I am gripping onto the wooden bench with one hand and digging into Edward’s chest with the other as I sit behind him. I’m not sure if I’m making sure he doesn't fall off, or making sure I don’t fall off, but even logic at this stage couldn't loosen my grip. Luzma and Samir are naughtily giggling at my fearful stupor and I would have laughed at myself, save for the lump in my throat as we hurtled along the track!



Oh! Did I mention that the train track is still used by the train!!? Apparently we would have to scamper off the tracks if the train was spotted! Luckily, the only time we were forced off the tracks was when another motor bike taxi came from the opposite direction. There would then be a stand-off as to who should get off the tracks. We quickly learnt that if the taxi was carrying fuel, he had right of way. Other than that, the taxi that had the most passengers was given priority. This was determined by an animated exchange between the motor bike operators, and the older boys tried flexing seniority on the young operators.

When we arrive at the bathing pools and I regain my composure, we walk through the little village, which is made up of homes and people selling a variety of local foods. The smells are delicious!

Thinking that our main harrows were over, we walk for a while enjoying the flora and fauna and decide on the third pool for a little swimming. The boys wander off to practice their diving and spot fishes, while Luzma and I catch up on some girl talk. There is light rain which feels refreshing in the cool hills and we pay it no mind.

Our dreamy little bubble is suddenly popped when a man in a bright orange t-shirt pops out of the heavy greenery and yells at us in fast Spanish. I don’t understand a word, but Samir scampers to us and says that the river is raising rapidly and we need to cross back to the shore quickly. However, as we pick our way back across the stony bank, the crossing point has already risen quite a bit and the currents are very strong.

Edward manages to swim across with our bags, but as Luzma, Samir and I hold hands and try to maneuver the roaring currents, it becomes very clear as we are swept away each time that we can’t cross. The once cool rain is now cold, and the river level is quickly rising, so much so that every few minutes we have to step back on the river bank. The same man in the bright orange t-shirt reappears, and on seeing us trapped with a few other people, he slaps his leg and exclaims in Spanish again. Samir translates “I thought I told you to cross over?!” Samir shouts an explanation that we couldn’t maneuver the currents. He mutters crossly and disappears into the foliage again.

There we are, cold wet and trapped. Edward is sitting on the other side of the river with a few others who made it over in time. No sound to be heard but the roaring river between us.

The orange man re-appears, this time with several other orange-ies. What happens next is clearly a well practiced and organized exercise. A very muscular chocolate colored man plunges into the roaring river and swims strongly over to us with a very large ring inflatable. He makes it look like it’s a walk in the park for him. The only give away as to his effort , is his heavily flaring nostrils as he walks up to us on the bank. He puts Luzma to sit in the ring and he threads one arm through the ring. With the same gusto, he plunges back into the roaring river and swims across to a line of men and women holding hands on the other side of the bank to form a line that comes a quarter of the way into the river. The last link of the line grabs Luzma in the ring and she squeals with laughter as she is over to safety!!

Another very muscular chocolate colored man, a mini-me version of the first rescuer, as he is slightly smaller, then plunges in with another inflatable and makes his way over to us. He is giving me instructions when he arrives and I absent-mindedly think, “Damn! I hope mini-me is as strong as the first!” After threading his arm through my ring, he plunges in, I am close to him and hear the effort in his breathing and he puts strong determined strokes in the roaring currents. He has to swing me in the inflatable across from one arm to the other as the current keeps changing directions and the inflatable pushes against his efforts. With slightly less grace than the first rescuer, Mini-me gets me safely across to the link of arms on the bank. I thank him with every ounce of appreciation in my body.

The exercise is repeated for Samir and the few others trapped. Everyone is brought safely over. Edward has also caught it all on video. Once we are all safe on the bank, there is euphoria in the group and all of the rescuers eagerly give Edward their email addresses as they would like a copy of their truly heroic efforts. We are truly grateful for the efforts of the San Cipriano Rescue Team.

On our way back we mount our Brujitas. This time, I embrace my Brujita and I am fits of laughs and giggles. As we hurtle through the greenery, Luzma, Samir, Edward and I, our souls lit up with adrenaline and adventure,  are all arms up in the air, howling at the fading blue sky our signature doggy howl “OWH-HOW HOWWWW!”

Our Colombian Family
My time with them never fails to be my greatest memories. Till we meet again! S x

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CARTAGENA ... a Romantic Affair

When Edward and I came back from our Honeymoon in Barbados, we settled into married life, which I quickly learnt that in addition to being called “Mrs. Campbell” by my Mum and Brothers, meant many nights of washing dishes. On one such night whilst putting wet plates into the draining rack, Edward asked me, “Where shall we go to next?”. I thought about it and the usual holiday destinations quickly sprung to mind, skiing in British Colombia, Miami to see my baby brother and then I stopped. Whilst soaping up another plate and absent mindedly reminding myself to buy a pair of rubber gloves, I pondered, “If I could go anywhere in the world, where do I really want to go?”


Mrs. Campbell
All the fervor and excitement of our wedding was still fresh in my mind’s eye and my thoughts returned to those few days. As I turned memories over in my mind, I realized that two very important people were missing from our celebrations, Luzma and Samir. Jointly and individually they are inspirational people and once you see the inside of their world, you never want to go back. Modest, brave, principled, cultured, relaxed and all embracing are some of the over used, often under-appreciated words that I will vainly try to stick as labels on them, whilst trying to encapsulate the strength and tenor of their personalities.

I put down the final washed plate, jump on my husband wrapping my still wet hands around his neck and bellow, “Let’s go to Colombia!!! I want to see Luzma and Samir!!” Being the cool-cat that he is, he smiles his naughty smile and asks, “You’re sure?” knowing full well that I would go into dizzy fits of bouncing around and screaming, “Colombia! Colombia!” Laughing loudly, he jumps my crazy jumps with me and says, “Colombia it is!”.

The period of waiting from the moment we danced and yelled “Colombia!” in unison that night, to the day we actually board the plane is slow and torturous. All my snatched free moments were filled with Trip Advisor reviews and a million and one Google searches, so that when the day actually arrived, it was surreal.

CARTAGENA

We were quite happy to spend two weeks with Luzma and Samir in Cali, but being the avid adventurers that they are, they suggested that we visit another city as well. Knowing that we were still very much in our “honeymoon” period, they gently suggested the romantic old city of Cartagena.

Cartagena's colonial city is walled and has a fortress which is a designated UNESCO World Heritage Site.

Cartagena, the capital city of the Bolivar department, is a city of contrasts. Standing on the wharf close to Plaza de la Paz and looking away from the old city, we are confronted with a skyline of modern urban skyscrapers and high rises. Standing on the wharf, feeling the warmth and charm of the old city behind us, the metropolitan city exudes an aura of imposition, but yet, an apt juxtaposition to the narrow street city. Standing there, I have a sense of having stepped across the bay into a different time zone - the old city, a wonderful romantic past, whilst the contrasting horizon would be a step back into the chaotic present.


The urban metropolitan city of Cartagena as seen from the wharf of the historical city
Desirous of an authentic submergence into a different culture and lifestyle, Edward and I opt to stay in a boutique hotel in the historical city itself, called the Alfiz Hotel Boutique. Almost as a testament to being a quaint hotel tucked away in the heart of the walled city, the cab driver has to circle around the block several times before we finally stop at the walled street-side entrance with the tiny carved iron “Alfiz” on the wall. The massive wooden doors and iron work immediately mesmerize me, and I float out of the cab whilst I am vaguely aware of Edward tipping our cab driver and collecting our bags.

Alfiz Hotel Boutique, Calle Cochera de la Gobernador

The Hotel does not disappoint. It has all of the old world charm – 2 feet thick raw limestone walls, 25 foot high ceilings, wooden support beams at least 2 foot by 2 foot in dimension, curved red brick arch-ways and the most beautiful indoor courtyard and breakfast nook.

We soon realize that this is the style of most of the buildings in the city. From the street, you are confronted by strong veritable walls, but once the massive wooden doors (or in some cases, the mini-door in the massive wooden doors) open up, a wash of sunlight from the private indoor courtyards welcomes you.

Excited and armed with our gps and cameras we eagerly head out on foot to explore the city. Having an acute sense of smell, I am immediately slapped by the smells of the city. It’s not all pretty, but it wasn’t bad enough for me to regret coming there. As a matter of fact, it added to the authenticity of the old city.

We didn’t realize it, but we arrived in Colombia a couple of days before their General Election. So on our first day we were entertained by campaigning at the Plaza y Palacio de la Gobernacion. Their campaigning comprised of local, traditional song and dance performances, as well as some sort of beauty pageant, with contestants modeling various outfits, whilst the prospective candidate waved from the balcony of the Palacio!!

We meandered away from the revelry, sorry, campaigning, and strolled along narrow streets, lined with interconnected, imposing two storied walled houses, until inevitably we end up in a garden square or plaza. Edward patiently waits as I insist on photographing every little thing and only when I have exhausted my own patience, we continue our exploration.

To my delight we find the famous walls to the “walled city” on the very first day!


We spend much of the day walking along the wall, only leaving to find a restaurant called ‘La Galera’ to have some lunch. The restaurant, much like the outer walls of the city and the huge old wooden pirate boats docked in the wharf, speak to the city’s history of having had to protect itself from pirate invasions. Pirates in various postures are the wine holders on the tables and the menu contains a very tastefully done pirate ship insignia on the top of the pages.

We are immediately shocked by the flavor of the meal. Being Trinidadians, we have very flavorful palettes. So the mild seasoning and lack on “pimienton” takes us completely by surprise.  The meal was delicious and we soak in the laid back lifestyle of the restaurant’s owner, who strolls out from the back office, to sit on the side walk with his colleagues over cups of coffee.

Teatro Heredia
Another impressive discovery was the Teatro Heredia located next to the Cartagena University. The Teatro boasts the height of a three story building with marble carved statutes on various corners. Having read much about the Teatro on Trip Advisor, especially “buy tickets for anything being shown”, it was a bit of a disappointment when it turned out that there were no performances whilst we were there. Nevertheless, the pale coloured brick walls with its lavish moldings and statues was architectural delight enough for me.

The Cathedral on the other side of the Plaza to Palacio de la Gobernacion, was awe inspiring from the exterior with its impressive stoned walls and incredibly beautiful Bell Tower. Having walked past it for two days in a row and finding the doors always closed, I was very excited whilst walking to dinner to Quebracho one night, to find the gargantuan doors open. I eagerly and respectfully slip in a side door and quietly assume a seat in one of the pews. What confronts me, as I sit there, is truly a mixture of awe, faith and incredulosity. I am amazed by the detail and effort that has gone into the creation of this Cathedral. It is the kind of Church that I imagine the Pope himself would pray in, but this is not what brings me to tears.

Inside view of the Cathedral

As I sit there, listening to the gentle voice singing accompanied by a slow guitar strum, my eyes devour the beauty laid out before me, and eventually I begin noticing the people coming in and out. A woman saunters in with denim jeans so tight, I wonder if she has to roll them off her body. Her top is off both shoulders and her black bra straps are clearly visible. She walks with an upright frame to the aisle, almost irreverent in that outfit, but suddenly her body language is docile and she genuflects so lowly that her knee touches the ground. She quietly settles on her knees in a pew and relinquishes herself in her conversation with God. Shortly after this woman, a man, whose frame and build suggest that he is involved in manual labour, comes across my path carrying a very laden black trade bag across his shoulder. The bag is so long that if he leans either forward or backwards slightly, it would touch the floor. He skillfully lays down his burden in a pew and quietly kneels with his thoughts for God that day. As he kneels, the woman is on her feet and out the door. Many others like this come in and out. The singer keeps singing whilst strumming his guitar. There’s no preaching, no heaven and hell, no waiting. Just people having their conversations with God. That’s it.

I begin to tear up and Edward reminds me of our dinner. We reluctantly take our leave.

Some of the treasures we found in Cartagena are, a quirky little art gallery/restaurant on Calle del Colegio, where the art is great, but the food not so much; Quebracho, an Argentine restaurant serving only the best Colombian meats; Mila Vargas, a French café owned by a Colombian business woman, complete with chickens everywhere and Michael Buble crooning in the background; The Palacio de la Inquisicion; Simon Bolivar Square and the incredible iron door knockers strewn about the city. There were trade people everywhere in the city, both working on and selling their intricate hand crafted creations.

As we neared the end of our time in Cartagena, I was eager to see my friends. I anxiously pack, while wistfully saying good-bye to the rainforest like copper showerhead in our room and I think to myself, “Cartagena it was great, but Cali here we come!”. That feeling was very short-lived. As our plane ascended and I had a bird’s eye view of the city, I was suddenly struck with the realization that I would not wake up to the beautiful city tomorrow! I allow myself to be taken back to our romantic walks through the city, staring at life from the top of the wall, marveling at the architecture and falling in love with the city’s history. At that moment, I recall Gabriel Garcia Marquez’s novel “Living to Tell the Tale” which recounts his life in Cartagena. It is only now that I develop a ful appreciation and true understanding of what his life here must have been like. I am saddened. I am overcome with a wash of joy for having seen and truly experienced such an incredible city and sorrow for having to leave it. I squeeze my husband’s arm and suggest, “Shall we come back in ten years and see how our city has grown?”. Sensing my nostalgia, Edward smiles and nods at me, “Of course babe.”

Our city
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Barbados, Barbados!


Honeymoon 1

After an amazing few days of intense high energy and emotional tidal waves for our wedding, a Bajan Honeymoon felt like the icing on the cake.

I had never been to Barbados before and very absent-mindedly thought as I threw my wedges  and my sun hat into my suitcase, well it’s a Caribbean island, so it’s not going to be much different from Trinidad …… maybe we just won’t know as many people! I was so very mistaken!

We were very excited in our little rental car, all piled up with my ridiculously over packed suitcases, pulling out of the Grantley Adams International Airport about to embark on our first adventure as Mr. and Mrs. Campbell. Edward, as diligent as he always is, had already got the GPS sorted out and it promised to be two weeks of maximum discovery of Barbados.

As we settled into our drive, chattering about this and that, I was silenced by my first glimpse of the Barbadian coastline. The water was an amazing crisp blue … the sort of blue you see a top in and have to have because the color is just so amazing and rich and you just want it close to your skin, kind of blue. Time seemed to slow down at that moment and I was so very content just to sit there, in the front passenger seat, staring out the window at the beautiful coast and all the shoreline activities as we drew closer to our Hotel.

Aside from its beautiful waters, and the incredible fact that Barbados is predominantly geologically composed of coral, I fell in love with the pride in its history that Barbados emanates. Barbados shares a similar history with Trinidad, in that they are both former British Colonies and at one point in time, Sugar Cane would have been the major industry for both islands.

Old stables at Fisherpond Great House
In our exploration of Barbados’ interior we stumbled across a restaurant called Fisherpond Great House. This was in fact a nineteenth century Colonial Plantation House, usually called “Great Houses”, in the St. Andrews’ Parish. The present owner of the Great House opens the House up as a part time fine dining restaurant on Sundays and Wednesdays. Relics from its hay-day were littered around the grounds, from the massive derelict hollow masonry post of the estate’s windmill, the sugar-cane storage building, the horse stables which were now being used as a greenhouse of sorts, to the House’s sprawling front garden which would have overlooked the sugar-cane fields. The Great House itself had been very well preserved. All of the House’s signature nineteenth century moldings, Demerrara shutters and sash door frames testified to a great history. It being Saturday, Edward and I were hesitant to leave the aura of the Great House and poked around for a bit before leaving and promising to be back for lunch tomorrow. We were not disappointed. Mr. John Chandelier, the new owner of the Great House and a former hotelier, was a fabulous host and has put a tremendous amount of effort into keeping the historic atmosphere of Fisherpond alive.

My next encounter with Barbados’ proud history, came in the form of St. Nicholas’ Abbey, located in the Parish of St. Peter. We arrived at this Great House mid-morning and did not leave until they closed. Not actually an Abbey, this Great House has been bought by a local architect eager to preserve the Jacobean-styled House’s elegant Dutch-influenced curvilinear gables and triple-arcaded Georgian portico. This Great House is one of only three Jacobean-styled houses, in the Western Hemisphere. In an effort to preserve the integrity and history of this Great House, the paved walkways were actually made using red-bricks that were used as ballast to weigh the ships down which came from England in the nineteenth century. Stamps on the blocks “Sonnybridge”, “Calder” and a few others, bore testament to the blocks' origins. The estate is actually a functioning sugar and rum distillery with a brand new copper plant called “Annabelle” housed in and paradoxically juxtaposed against the old sugar mill.

Ready for a day of trawling
Of course we found ourselves at Barbados’ world renown St. Lawrence’s Gap and the swanky part of town called Sandy Lane, had fabulous meals at the Mews, Champers, Tapas, Naniki’s and Paulo’s Churasco, had tea at the Bagetelle Great House and even found some time to visit a few art galleries.

Edward sniggled in a day of fishing and I was granted an evening of horse-back riding on Bath beach! We both marveled at the wonders of Harrison Caves and even contemplated signing up for the crawl-through tour. Our friend Captain Nick Knowles, took us on a beautiful catamaran cruise, introduced us to the Bajan sea turtles and kept us well supplied with malibus and rum and some good old talk!

It was every adventure we hoped it would be, but Barbados surprised us with its rich history and smooth rum. We left there, knowing that Barbados (the land of the bearded tree) would always have a piece of our hearts.

Acajou, Grand Riviere

7th & 8th March 2011

It's Carnival Monday and Tuesday in Trinidad, and this year my fiancĂ© and I have opted out of the chaotic national party to catch up on some much needed rest and relaxation. Along for the adventure are our friends, Yogita and Ramiz.

Grande Riviere is a small quaint village located on the Northern coast of Trinidad. Whilst it is now best known for the great leatherback turtles that come to the shore to lay their eggs during the months of March to June, Grande Riviere was historically a fishing and farming village. It's a four hour drive from the capital city of Port of Spain, but is worth every second of it. The amazing sights and the powerful energy of the ocean on the coastline is one of my favorite "get away" drives.

On the recommendation of a good friend, we have booked our stay at the Acajou Hotel. "Acajou", which means mahogany in French, is truly a diamond very cleverly cradled in the beautiful flora and fauna of Grande Riviere. Perched as the witness to the meeting point of the fresh water Grande Riviere River and the Caribbean Sea, it feels as though we have taken a step into another reality. As I step out of the van and look around, it seems like a plasma of calm surrounds the compound and separates us from the bustling city we left behind. Even with the Carnival music blasting in the nearby village, the serenity of this place seems to absorb the noise and diffuse it.

The rustic stand alone cabanas, carefully placed so as to allow maximum privacy amongst its guests, was designed and built by a French architect and his wife. The architect's worth can be measured by his eye for detail in the cabana's design, and the careful combination of warm and lighter woods used throughout the cabana. The rustic outward charm of the cabana beguiles all the modern conveniences of the interior. If the cabana's outer appearance and construction can be described as masculine, the finishing on the interior can only be described as romantically feminine.  A beautiful four poster bed is the central point of the room, with soft white draped mosquito nets that are so elegant, they look more like decorative bed curtains. Once I draw myself away from the beautiful bed, my eye is immediately drawn to the empty alluring hammock, gently drifting on the sea breeze in the covered patio. 


Our slice of Paradise

The beauty and serenity of Acajou is matched by its equally romantic origins. Sadly, two years after this little paradise was built, the architect's wife died, and he returned to France. Even though he has left our little paradise island, I hope somehow he knows how much this gem he left behind, means to those who have found it.

Acajou is now owned and run by a very polite and professional Swedish woman by the name of Christina. Under Christina's management, Acajou embraces and nurtures the eco-tourist consciousness in Grande Riviere, and on check-in we are told about the opportunities to obtain permits for turtle watching, hike along the Grande Riviere River, or even surfing lessons. We immediately sign up for turtle watching and after settling in to our cabana, we venture toward the shore.

Photo by Ramiz
As we exit the wooden gate of the compound and head across the wooden walk-way, we pass through what is left of the Grande Riviere fishing industry. There are a few pirogues grounded in the cove between the beach and the river mouth, and drag nets can be seen under the thatched hut. The fishermen are friendly and as we chat about a net they are working on, I can't help but notice that at least two of the men working on ropes are both missing their right arms from about mid forearm. I wonder whether it is the same rope they are working on now that has severed their limbs, or perhaps they got caught in the nets, but I cannot bring myself to ask. I find myself faced with their reality and silently pray that they manage well without the use of their hand.

Photo by Ramiz
The beach itself is beautiful. The sand is a little more coarse than usual and there is a steep embankment where the waves crash quietly onto the shore. On the eastern side of the bay, there are oodles of children splashing and playing in the river mouth where they don’t have to contest with the awesome crashing of the waves. As Yogita and Ramiz take a stroll, Edward and I spend our first evening in Grande Riviere sitting on this beautiful shore watching the light slowly fade from the sky.